young and energetic always need freedom in their life or everyday action. but what it cost to "buy" the freedom if they still tied under family ties?? before freedom can interrupt, think about the result, the after getting the freedom.. is that really the outcome u want to obtain after buying the freedom ticket? to someone maybe yes although the freedom is awhile but somewhat predicted to be worthy..
i read a story about a 17 years old youngster that really hunger for a freedom from her/his parents and of course a little "break" from others that been described not so understanding rather than friends. even have the thinking to kill themselves for not giving them a little freedom that they need..and purpose is making them regret for not so open in giving freedom to do anything they want. single-minded like that is so hurtful for the parents that love them so much though not really giving the freedom they want as to them their child still small,don't want expose to unwanted incident. Afraid of their safety..but how much the children really understand? none!
respect no longer exist since they did not obtain the freedom that they think deserved from their parents. So in most of matter, they planned themselves first before telling them their plan on what had planned. in this case,it clearly shows that they not really put the words of parents at first before making decision and this crashed the feelings of belonging as part of the family. nonetheless, they might secretly "shout" it out with little clue and let them to make guess. but all resulted to be "no good". as they become the last person to know.
Is having boyfren at early age of schooling child is good? Not really though had article before indicate a bf can help you in studies and lend a hand in study if they under same level. But to me,3rd party had bad influence to them. Aside from what they perceived,bf could make their attitude changed,always defend upon them and trust fully to their bf. Actually,as they keep "hang" with their bf,slowly parents will not be the biggest power in influencing their children in whatever action.Appeared frequently in newspaper about,girl being raped by bf. This is what most parents about their tennage girl having bf which not known to the parents. Or case of girl having sex with their bf. They always trying new things at that certain age. So as under pursued by their bf,they probably could just promised. Result,its under minor rape case as the girl underage. The pity is the parents. So,what the freedom of having boyfriend at young age since u don't know how to protect yourselves??
Though if boy given the freedom,think the first they will do is checking into porno website. the young blood always feel "whoah,the outside web world could be interesting".. they didnt think before act. this land they to test negatively and huge impact to them and families.
freedom means "free" like a bird to some people. but not freely as a murder..free to kill and land in prison. Thats the trouble of freedom. u may feel free but if missed the steps,u may land in trouble. limited freedom will teach you to be better person. Put urself under certain line and not over-crossed the line of freedom when feels that u may land in trouble and give impact to others.
i read a story about a 17 years old youngster that really hunger for a freedom from her/his parents and of course a little "break" from others that been described not so understanding rather than friends. even have the thinking to kill themselves for not giving them a little freedom that they need..and purpose is making them regret for not so open in giving freedom to do anything they want. single-minded like that is so hurtful for the parents that love them so much though not really giving the freedom they want as to them their child still small,don't want expose to unwanted incident. Afraid of their safety..but how much the children really understand? none!
respect no longer exist since they did not obtain the freedom that they think deserved from their parents. So in most of matter, they planned themselves first before telling them their plan on what had planned. in this case,it clearly shows that they not really put the words of parents at first before making decision and this crashed the feelings of belonging as part of the family. nonetheless, they might secretly "shout" it out with little clue and let them to make guess. but all resulted to be "no good". as they become the last person to know.
Is having boyfren at early age of schooling child is good? Not really though had article before indicate a bf can help you in studies and lend a hand in study if they under same level. But to me,3rd party had bad influence to them. Aside from what they perceived,bf could make their attitude changed,always defend upon them and trust fully to their bf. Actually,as they keep "hang" with their bf,slowly parents will not be the biggest power in influencing their children in whatever action.Appeared frequently in newspaper about,girl being raped by bf. This is what most parents about their tennage girl having bf which not known to the parents. Or case of girl having sex with their bf. They always trying new things at that certain age. So as under pursued by their bf,they probably could just promised. Result,its under minor rape case as the girl underage. The pity is the parents. So,what the freedom of having boyfriend at young age since u don't know how to protect yourselves??
Though if boy given the freedom,think the first they will do is checking into porno website. the young blood always feel "whoah,the outside web world could be interesting".. they didnt think before act. this land they to test negatively and huge impact to them and families.
freedom means "free" like a bird to some people. but not freely as a murder..free to kill and land in prison. Thats the trouble of freedom. u may feel free but if missed the steps,u may land in trouble. limited freedom will teach you to be better person. Put urself under certain line and not over-crossed the line of freedom when feels that u may land in trouble and give impact to others.
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